You feel out of place.
There are things about your sexuality that don’t quite fit in with the mainstream mold of what’s “normal” for sexual desire or pleasure.
You’ve come across certain kinks, fetishes, or paraphilias that interest you, but you’re scared to pursue them because others might label you weird, perverted, or deviant.
Constantly questioning your identity for having the urge to dress or look or express yourself a certain way inspire feelings of guilt, shame, and fear of losing everything you worked for.
So, you hide your desires.
You try to convince yourself that what you want is wrong and shouldn’t be given the time and space to explore. But the more you try to suppress it, the stronger it is.
It’s exhausting living a lie, sacrificing your happiness, and resigning yourself to a life without joy or satisfaction.
And it’s too scary to tell your partner how you feel, so you sneak around, leading to more pain and disappointment.
I can help.
Education is the first step to feeling validated, understood, and embracing your authentic self.
Alternative lifestyles refer to anything outside the cultural mainstream. The concept may instinctively trigger shame or guilt, but that fades with understanding and acceptance.
Through sex therapy, exploring your alternative sexual lifestyle can be processed with validation and discover what it means for yourself and your relationship.
Reach out now, and let’s get started.